So there's a girl I want to date, and her boyfriend just broke up with her. I want her, but I also want her to be happy. She knows I want to date her, she's known this for a bit of time. Basically, it kills me to see her sad like this, part of me just wants to help her, but I don't want to do it so selflessly that she takes me for granted either. I know I can't press the issue right now, and I don't want to push her. I just want us to be together, with her happy being with me. Any advice?
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Ever seen a chick flick? You can never be too selfless. Only too distant. Be there for her, be patient, and be WITH her. take her chinese food when she's upset and send her semi-anonymous ice-cream to comfort eat. make her balloons with her ex's face on them and a pin. You get the idea. Be the best friend in the chick flicks that the girl ends up falling in love with. Plus, if you are that close to her, giving and recieving advice, comforting, etc., then you will know the right time to step in. There will be a short window of time between getting over her ex and looking for a new guy, which is right where you want to put yourself with her the most often. Doing "friend" things. (mini-date type things.) like bowling/arcade or getting coffee/ice cream. Hope this helped...