We've been together over 3 years have a child he's in live with me still(I think) but I feel no spark. I love him but idk, I truly can't see myself growing old with him.
This past 3 years hasn't exactly been fun we fight a lot and its changed who I am. I'm now unhappy, close minded and feel a lot of hate. Is it selfish of me to no longer want to be with him even tho we hve a family together and he seems happy our child seems happy?
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Been there. Done that. I feel guilty for wanting to leave my husband, but not selfish bec I believe I do both of us a favor. I believe we can be with someone else that we care and truly love and be happy and feel fulfilled.
If you think this is what you want, then do it. The longer you procrastinate, the more you two be miserable, hopefully in time you won't resent each other. Child or no child involved, remember you do for the sake of your child too. Yes, it will be tough to be single and on your own, but you'll be better off. Staying is not going to change anything...
Can I ask aside the fact you mention above ( no spark, no love, you changed) why you want to leave him? Meet another man?0
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