My ex and I ended on bad terms. He ended up breaking my heart after telling me that he's lost the feeling of love for me because he has eyes for another woman. A month later, he texts me. He says he just wants to see what's up...I told him I was OK, doing great and he told me bad news about his car breaking down and being busy.
As he texted, he kept saying sorry about everything and kept asking me what I was doing...Then he finally admits that he misses me a lot and has been having dreams about me and looking through photos with me and now he wants to see me. No he INSISTED on seeing me. He wants to "talk" and take me out to dinner and pick me up. He kept referring to me as "mi amor".
Although he really broke my heart, I was happy to hear from him. I'm afraid of him saying mean worse things to me after already admitting he's lost feelings for me...Should I go out with him? Or cancel? We're supposed to meet up after work this Saturday.
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i would NOT go out to dinner with him...
maybe lunch, or a coffee place...something short, you don't want your heart broken again so keep your guard up...
people can change, he may realize he made a HUGE mistake...give him a second chance if you want, I'm a believer in giving people second chances...
but remember his words are his foundations to his actions...just make sure his actions back up his words...its so easy to say things like I miss you and you're the one for me...but really he needs to prove it, if that's what you want...just expect him to hurt you again until he proves he will not...that way you won't be as hurt...but remember to also keep your options open because you aren't dating and someone better may come along..
its all up to you, but I'd keep it short when you meet him...also remember its easy to feel good again early on, just give it time, because with time you'll see if you fall into the slump you were once in again...but really just prepared to be hurt again, that way if he does hurt you, you were expecting it and it won't be as painful...but hey maybe he has changed, like I said its up to you to give him another "chance" or whatever
good luck, keep your guard up2