Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for about a year and a half now but I go to college and work part time and she works part time at her job, at her job guys are always flirting with her and I feel like she lets it go on longer then it should, I have approached her on this but these same 4 guys are always trying to flirt with her talking sexual, asking her to take breaks with them, and pulling her hair jokingly knowing that she's in a relationship. What should I do?
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Honestly, I hate to be a debbie downer, but high school relationships almost never survive college. I tried it, and wasted my whole freshman year being miserable. Going to college is such a huge step, you learn so much and change so much as a person in the space of a couple months, not to mention overall in the four years. It sounds like there are already cracks in the relationship, and however small, will get magnified. You are going to mature, meet new people, be exposed to new ideas, and following your ambition. All the while, she is going to be working at subway (or whenever) with the same four lame dudes trying to flirt with her. I know this seems like a random answer to this question, but I tell almost everyone to get rid of high school romances and move on to better and brighter things when you get to college- it has been the case with myself and all my close friends, and we are all better for it. Good luck1