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I am sorry this happened to you. But would you really want to go back with a person who cheated on you? I know it's hard right now to think straight, but you need to value yourself. Stay strong, tight up your pants and if she ever happens to ask you back, please don't. I suggest you to cry a lot when you're alone, distract yourself, do everything you can to feel a bit better, for about a month or two, THEN that's when you need to start focusing more on yourself and start dating again.Dating right after a relationship isn't good at all, that's why you have to wait a while, and when that time comes, try not to compare your date to your ex, you're just going to make it harder. You are not going to get over her overnight, but if you follow the good steps, it'll be easier day by day.Like my ex broke up with me 11 months ago, and for 9 months straight I felt like it was just yesterday when he broke up with me and I had that terrible feeling in my chest. So I have been good these last 2 months because I am getting over him little by little.Now let me ask you a question: Would you be getting back with a person who always breaks up with you via text or email and then when you want to talk things out, they won't reply? Would you go back with a person who has breaken up with you 4 times? Would you go back with a person who will ask you back because they can't find nothing better?See, that's why I can't go back with him, because I need to have self respect and I need to value myself. There are times when I do feel very lonely and miss the times we were together but I stay strong. So if I can do it, so can you!Good luck.
however long it takes me to quit sitting around singing the blues like a p**** and finally get up off my ass and start talking to another girl. right after a breakup we look for problems in every potential prospect and have this illusion that the one we just broke up with was better...but its just that, an illusion. as soon as you can clear the slate and get the brain cleaned out from the last person and start to see value in another girl/guy etc. that is when you will get over it. start talking to other girls and give them a chance. the sooner the better.
Great advice! There's no other way.
thanks! your right, not to many other ways to do it unless you just enjoy writhing in your own pitty while they are out getting over it and doing their own thing. life is short. :)
Well my ex dumped me a week ago. Surprisingly enough I am taking it quite well. My ex was a douche bag to me I will admit I have taken a bit of damage from the break up but I am not going to let that stop me from dating and giving other guys a try. I just went on a date with a really cool guy I at first was apprehensive about. We hit it off and I can't lie I would love to hang out with him again soon. I don't know if we'll grow into being more than just friends, I just know I'm glad I didn't let my bad experience with my ex prevent me from connecting with an awesome guy. And that to me shows me that I am already moving on. :)
I was in a 2 year relationship until he got deported so it was an aburpt split up and not something we mutually wanted. So I guess that makes it harder to get over the fact we grew apart due to the distance. It's been a year since I've seen him 3 months since we last talked but I still miss him and reminsce. But, the stage where I felt miserable and cried over him was over with 3 months into the break up. I usually don't totally forget the ex until I meet someone new and make new memories/moments.
Depends on the relationship, how long it lasted and how close I was to that person. I tend to get attached no matter what so I take a longer time, and I take it harder then most. It took me a very hard emotional year to get over and divorce my husband. I dated a guy for 8 monts and it took me about a month to get over it.
if I'm not too attached to that person then a week at the longest but if I had feelings like strongly then it could take forever. usually after a break up I get into another relationship, I just always have someone next in line to be with me. I get over someone usually fast. Really depends on how long we were together and how much feelings I've had for him. Like my current man I have been with on and off for a year and then I really love him so I don't think I could get over him. And he knows that.
For me, it took the same amount of time the relationship lasted. Well that's just for my first...I still have a try for another relationship. However, once I got over it, I was so happy (and still am! WOOOHOOO!). I think a person will know when they've gotten over a breakup.
It all depends on the relationships.. how much work you put into it how close yu two were, what kind of ties are still there, etc. I have been battling getting over one myself even with being in a new relationship and an old guy told me that really close relationships that have to go seperate ways while still in love take anywhere from 2-5 years..
it depends if your the one doing the breaking up, or are the one being broken up with. I've only had 1 boyfriend (lasted 1 year) when I broke up with him, I celebrated at the club that same night :D If it's a mutual break up then it's probably not as difficult for both to move on. But yea, each situation is unique. =)
I was with my ex for little over 2 years, it was really hard but when I broke up with him, it maybe took me about 2 weeks to get over him and the reason why it was so easy for me to get over him was because he had been treating me like sh*t for a really long time, now why it took me so long to break up with him, I don't know.
because girls your age like bad boys
No I am not attracted to bad boys. Its boys your age that think girls like me are attracted to bad boys. Just because some girls are attracted to bad boys does not mean all of them are.
i dated my first boyfriend for a year and a half. I broke up with him a year ago. I'm still not over him. I guess it depends how long you date the person, how much you like/love them, etc. overall, it depends on the person.
yeah my fiance just broke up with me. we were friends for like 8 years. I don't think I'll ever be able to get over her.
He was your first. It will be hard to get over him. But when you date more guys. You will not be as sensitive.
aweh, that sucks QA. :(@Rashad, you're probably right. :)
I'm not gonna lie,it won't happen over night,these things take time and how much time depends on the individual,how the relationship ended and how long it lasted.If you two were engaged you obviously really love each other.Are you sure there is no way that you could get her back?
yeah we were engaged. She cheated on me and is moving to TX, she won't take me back :(
Omg I'm so sorry to hear that.If she is capable of cheating then just keep in mind that you deserve better than that.It'll get better with time and you'll find a girl that is deserving of your love and would never treat you this way :-)
I think it depends on how much you put into the relationship to be honest. If you give it your all, it will take a long time to get over. I'm not in love anymore, but I'm definitely not over it yet.
depends on the relationship but maybe like 3 weeks or so just to get useto being single I guess. I mean it can range from 2 seconds to 3 months.
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my boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me and I was in love with him and still am. That was a year ago and I'm still not 100% over everything. so who knows! I hope soon though.
why did he break up with you if you don't mind me asking hun?
i don't mind, he broke up with me because "he doesn't want a girlfriend right now". he says he wants to focus on his career. I guess he isn't ready, he doesn't exclude me out of his future and he hasn't dated anyone since we broke up, and neither have I. We talk once in a while. pretty complicated, seeing it never made sense to me. I did nothing wrong to him. He's 25 and has only been with 2 girls and I was his 1st real girlfriend, so maybe he feels like he hasn't seen enough yet..idk! lol
it usually takes me a couple of days to get over someone but my last boyfriend I'm still not over him cause I finally found the person I truly love.i move on but I never forget.
A long time, but it will get better! Not right away. but it does I promise. : )
I hope so.
Its hard right Now! I wish I could do something or say something to make it better! *hugs*
I really wanna go to her place and beg, but that would be stupid ha.
Ok we have to talk about what happen maybe you can get her back! : )
I've always broken up with the guy, and in every case I was over the guy by the time I broke up with them D:
yeah, I know that's not so cool of me.
depends how much you love them if you just like them then possibly a week but if you love them then its hard might take a few months sometimes years or find someone els plenty of fish in the sea
For each person it varies. I think the more the person goes out and meets new people and takes on new projects the faster the healing process will be.
It depends on how long, intense, and honest the relationship was to begin with.
I'll let you know when I actually get over it. :/ If I wasn't in love with a guy, it doesn't take long. I love my latest ex though, so I'm not over him. It's been six months so far, and I'm not even close to being over him.
It depends on why you broke up.This could be totally fixable :-)
Depends on the relationship, how long the relationship was, and how much they meant to me.A month or so generally.
A good amount of time to be honest, when I fall in love I fall deep.But after that I realize that, there are even better guys then the ones that let me go.
It depends on the time the relationship lasted..but you won't get over it that same day.
Depends how long and serious the relationship was. If it didn't get very serious, then I might be depressed for a week, but then I realize it's for the best.
About a day. But by the time I break up with most guys I hate them!
2 minutes...yes I have emotional attachment problems and that's how it should be
it takes me really long time because I get attached easily and quickly
Usually those who quickly attach also quickly get over!
not with me
If I didn't love him, on to the next one... Tony who?If I did love him, years... don't know if you ever get over the ones you love completely. :-/
depends but for me it took 13months and 29days 14hours don't know the seconds lol :P
vote down for what?for took it so long for me to move on? well that's my own answer, I'm not like others like seconds or whatever haha
When I was really emotionally attached, 6 months.At other times, only a week or two. Depends on how much I liked him and if I wanted to end it or if he broke up with me.
Not long at most I'd say 2-3 months if it was a long relationship.Otherwise it would just be a week or two.
I'm still going through a breakup, but I think I'm almost over her (it's been about 3 months). Just need another girl to distract me, I feel like that would be a good solution :P.
3 months absolute maximum! Most of times it's just 2 weeks!
About 20 mins. NEXT!Just get those endorphins flowing again, get back on the horse, so to speak.
depends on the relationship and the reason why we broke up
Nothing gets you over the next one like the last one.
Whoops, that was to be reversed, Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one.
It depends on how much I'm into the guy
How long does it take to watch The Notebook?
aksdjhfaoew too long :(
Until you find someone new.
depends on each relationship
It really depends on the person.
Over 9000 days.
soon, about a month.
Nearly a year. Sucks wasting time missing someone.
a couple weeks
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