Guys, would you really want to know if your girlfriend or wife cheated on you if it only happened once?

[Anonymous]

I was just watching "Valentine's Day" where the wife of 30 some years tells her husband that she had an affair a long time ago. It didn't last long and it was only once and he never would have found out if she hadn't told him. The only reason she told him was because the guilt had bothered her for so long.

How many of you guys would really want to know that your wife or long term girlfriend had cheated on you if it happened a long time ago and it truly didn't mean anything to her? I know the auto answer usually is 'of course I would want to know so that I could dump her' but really, for a long term relationship where the two of you love each other and share a life together ... would you rather not ever find out?

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[Anonymous]

Yes I'd want to find out so that I could finish with her and have a long term relationship and be in love with someone who wasn't a lying cheating scumbag. People who truly love each other don't go behind each others' backs and have sex with other people.

This might sound weird, but if I had a girlfriend who wanted an open relationship where she was honest about wanting to have sex with others with my permission and still be in a relationship with me I wouldn't mind that at all. It's mostly the lying and going behind my back that I wouldn't like.

[guy532]

No, I wouldn't want to know. You unloading your guilt on me so YOU can feel better is unfair. You deserve to feel guilty and you have to deal with it. That's just being selfish.

[ladsin]

I've had a few girls cheat on me so far =( but I would honestly not wanna know I mean if it was like a girlfriend I would but like my wife of 20 years that would drive me insane id leave her, but wouldn't feel up to ever dating again after that

[Cptnjjim]

Omg I hated that movie! That old slut deserved to die for screwing over her old ass husband. I'm surprised that dude didn't have a heart attack haha. But yeah id want to know.

[Matrim]

I would want to know so that I could dump her:p Or use that guild to get a second girlfriend (jk...maybe)

[Panzer103]

would like to know so I could divorce her. One strike, you're out.