I voted A.
He still talks about her a lot, after being broken up for a year.
Facebook sent her a friend request? I don't buy that.
He still has photos of her on his phone, after all this time.
They meet up, right before Valentine's Day.
Those are all red flags. It's too much, too many happenings to suggest innocence.
You have every right to be suspicious. I would sit him down and talk this out. Tell him exactly how you feel about the situation. If he keeps up contact with her after knowing you're uncomfortable with it, get rid of him.
Best of luck!1 0 0 0Thanks for BA :-)
This happened to me really really recently. But instead, they had just broken up about two weeks before we started dating. The fact of the matter is that he didn't tell you that he was talking to her, and honesty is the most important thing in a relationship. Your boyfriend probably got mad at you because he didn't want you to find out anymore. If you get a bad feeling about it, trust your gut. He will probably hurt you in the end, and I'm sorry about that. My boyfriend broke up with me, because he was still talking to her. I'm sorry this is happening, but it's clearly his vendetta.
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it's perfectly reasonable to be upset over this.
if I were you, I'd let him know - no contact whatsoever. if he has a problem with it, dump him, he's no good.
and all those pictures on the phone and number and "accidental Facebook request"? PLEASE! gimme a break. these things needs to go. now.1 0 0 0Thank you, I appreaciate hearing this as he said I was unresonable in beng upset. I could tolerate the photo on his phone, as he has a lot of really old photos on there, and I've has the Facebook things happen to me a few times too, but...things just start to add up. Thanks again!
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1 0I'd be very upset. If I was planning to meet up with an ex (personally I would rather die) I would definitely run it by my current boyfriend. I'd be suspicious too, my take on things is, if it didn't really matter you would have told me instead of keeping it a secret.
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