Explain why and explain an exception where you couldn't get yourself to contact the girl.
Be honest, if you really were interested in a girl, you would make the first move right?
What Guys Said 5
Nope. Doing that and getting rejected every time pretty sums up my dating life.
In order for me to make a move on a girl, I need to know that she is actually interested in me or she has to give out extremely obvious signals to show her interest.
Making a move is not easy, especially when you are putting your self esteem and your faith in that person on the line.1
I would make the first move, that's right.
However, for some girls, there's no sign of attraction so I don't jump on the first move in risk of being shot down.0
don't fall into that one. making the first move is hard, we all get shy and making the first move there is a lot on the line.0
Yes I would; doing something is usually a lot better than doing nothing and having regrets about it what I could have done or something like that later.
However approaching a girl you have a crush on is easier said than done because there exists the possibility of being shot down/rejected/the girl thinking you are a creep, etc. With that said I still believe that approaching the other person is a good thing to do, because at least then you have a shot at being accepted by them, whereas if you don't you could lose your golden chance to be with them.0
What Girls Said 1
The men where I am from, do not have to those girls are seriously aggressive...0
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