My boyfriend has just told me that he is thinking of moving to Australia in a few months ! We have never discussed this and he just suddenly said it but is serious about it ! I am heartbroken just writing this and thinking about it ! I can't go with him as I am in the middle of university ! He says it will be OK and we can still be in a relationship ? !, He is expecting me to wait 2 years and then join him ! My head is in a spin and I don't know how I am supposed to accept this ! Could a relationship survive this ? We are in a LDR anyway ! I am 2 hours away but we see each other at weekends and that is hard enough ! How can it survive when he is on another continent and a 24 hour flight away ? I am left feeling bewildered by it all and thinking this is the end of our relationship ! Am I right ? I don't know if I should break up with him to suffer the pain now before he goes away , I would never give him an ultimatum but the shock of this has me so confused ! Can you please help X
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If I was in your shoes, I would just end the relationship now, neither of you will be able to wait 2 years maybe more. Its best too be heart broken and suffer now, but in time you will move on, and find someone else.
Your doing the right thing in not giving him an ultimatum, because if he really does love you, he reconsider and would stay until you finish university and then go off together too Australia.
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