The other night I met up with my buddy at the bar, he was there with his friends from work. At one point during the night a few more of the coworkers joined us, one of them was this girl who sat herself next to me.
Now keep in mind that usually I don't really take meeting girls at bars seriously because it's the constant outcome of them never texting you back even when THEY give out their number without asking.
So this girl sat down next to me and wasted no time in talking to me which we joked around a lot and really seemed like we clicked. I guess another thing I should point out is she was drunk. So we constantly talked throughout the night, she initiated all the flirting with me, probably because she was drunk. I mean I was flirting with her of course but she started saying things like "I bet you wanna kiss me right Now" and did things like resting her head on me while she laughed and grabbed my arm and even drank my beer from my glass without hesitation. Some of the female coworkers were saying "Girls don't drink from an ugly guys Glass" hinting at the fact it's a sign she thinks I'm attractive which she even said to me. Anyway throughout all this flirting back and forth it got to a point where we would both joke about kissing each other saying "You look like you wanna kiss Me" and then after going back and forth with that she mentioned a boyfriend.
Long story short didn't end up kissing but there was all this flirting going on and she even told me how she was getting stressed about her relationship because he's 10 years older (making him in his mid 30's) and he wants kids, marriage etc. And even seemed insecure/upset, saying I didn't think she was attractive that's why I didn't kiss her. I told her she was very attractive but I wasn't going to kiss her because she has a boyfriend and didn't want everyone that you work with see you cheat on your boyfriend. Seemed like she understood But she gave me her number and told me to text her. We left the bar and walk together for a bit and I said I'd text her that night and she said her phone was dead but when she gets home she'll text me back. I text her (Friday night) and no response. I not exactly surprised but my main question is should I try texting her again. The text I set her that night was along the lines of "Had a great time, hope we can text and see each other again at some point"...not the smoothest text I could have sent I'll admit but should I give it another chance with sending a simple one of "hey ____ how are you?". I mean I'm not interested in being the cause if the broke up but at the same time if she becomes single in the near future there's nothing wrong with us already getting to know each other
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maybe she gave you the wrong or a fake number. I've found (and this doesn't apply to all girls) that lot of girls like to be flirted with and to flirt. They don't want anything to come of it besides that. I've definitely been in that spot. She probably figured since you didn't work with her you were a harmless flirtation that she could walk away from and never see again
The trick for the future. A girl gives you her number at the bar. Immediately call the number, and say with a kind laugh if it rings, "just wanted to make sure you weren't giving me a fake number" and if it doesn't ring well, handle it how you want0