My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 3 months now and he contstantly looks through my phone, texts, emails etc. I don;t mind as I have nothing to hide, but is it wrong that I would like a bit of privacy? I mean if I leave one bit of detail out of anything he automatically assumes I;m doing something behind his back because that was a shady move on my part. I reassure him that I'm not but he digs and digs til he finds something that seems off. What should I do?
A bit of privacy? Is that wrong of me?
What Girls Said 1
Does he give you a reason for why he is always going through your phone and accounts? Did you do something for him not to trust you? Has he been cheated on in the past that gives him trust issues? If the answer to both of those is no and there is no other good explanation for why he has such trust issues, then HE could be the one hiding something. People who are not trustworthy themselves often are the ones that actually have something they are hiding...0
What Guys Said 1
It's not wrong to have privacy.
Your boyfriend definitely has trust issues. You need to set your own boundaries. Even if both of you are living together, you're entitled to your own privacy.0
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