Should my ex and my girlfriend meet?

my ex wants to hang out and she wants me to bring my new girlfriend over for a double date (with a guy ik she doesn't really like but that's another story)

anyway, they've been talking on the phone a lot and Haven't met in person. my new gfs mom says she is against it because girls can be vicious and my ex might have feelings and react violently.

the thing is, talking on the phone they seem to get along so well and have a lot in common (which scares me just a bit. lol.)

what do you guys think

  • Meet
    Vote A
  • Don't meet
    Vote B
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btw, this was THEIR IDEA. not mine


Most Helpful Girl

  • Their idea is still not a good idea. Imagine this. They are kerosene, you are a lightener. Kerosene does not mind a little more kerosene so when they talk on the phone it they like each other, but when meeting, including you-the lightener- someone's bound to say something about you that goes BOOM to the other.

    And there you have it. A surefire recipe to the mother of all catfights.


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What Girls Said 17

  • NO for what logical reason - to boost your ego? Sounds like the ex still likes you -- why would you DO that to your NEW girlfriend UNLESS you still want the EX... I know I would be HIGHLY upset there is no logically reason for them to meet..

  • Bad idea. Your ex doesn't need to be hanging around you and your new girlfriend. Plus you said the new guy she is seeing is not someone she is really interested. I don't know your history with hyour ex but it could very well be an attempt to try and make you jealous. Which defeats the purpose of "hanging out as friends". I'd say tell her that you don't think it's a good idea and don't bring her into your relationship.

  • No. No. No. No. No.

    Your ex has nothing to do in your life.

    Nor in your gf's life.

    It's easier to get along on the phone than when you're sitting on respective ends of a table getting physically confronted with the fact that the one you used to kiss is now kissing someone else, or the one you're with speaking way too comfortably with a girl who's not you.



  • Well, tbh when I read your question I was like, why the hell would you want to do that for? lol. Eh, I personally don't think you should but if they get along anyways they might just go ahead and meet without you. You know how your ex is so do you think it's a good idea? Sounds like you two are still friends so maybe it wouldn't be too bad. Just seems kinda awkward. lol. XD

  • Bad bad bad bad bad. My boyfriend tried to do that and that's the reason I stopped liking him. This is a TERRIBLE idea. They will both try to be making each other jealous and not in a good way. And, unless you still have feelings for your ex...stop all connections with her, your girlfriend can't be happy with that.

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What Guys Said 2

  • Yeah set it up, just make sure to invite you mom and ask them what they would change about you. I'm sure you'll have a lovely time but personally I'd rather get punched in the groin.

  • My first instinct is bad idea.


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