Everything was going great, lot of chemistry, lot of flirtation, everyone was beginning to notice us and his friends were dropping hints about us. He seemed a little shy so I casually mentioned in a text one day that id be open to going for a drink sometime. I got no reply to this. And Right at this time I took a very good opportunity which meant I had to temporarily move away so would see him a lot less. but I wasn't going far at all. and in truth I still very much thought we could and would be together. but I noticed he completely cooled his jets right then. I was very saddened by this and I felt played and messed around.
After a few months he started trying to make a connection again and when I moved back he was very full on again.
Can any guy explain this? why did he cool off so much? we were going great and it was clear there would be something great between us together as a couple.
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It's really hard to say. Perhaps he felt that the distance you were moving away was too great to realistically pursue you. Maybe perhaps he thought that you going away was in some way or manner influenced by his thoughts you had feelings for another man in that area. In these aspects, I can't say that he took it personally.
If he decided to stop talking to you because he resented the fact that you were moving, then perhaps then yes he did take it personal. There's no one on here that can answer that question for him but him. If he's reaching out now that you're back, then perhaps if time and situation permits, then you should ask him how he feels about you as a person, how he felt when you moved and get him to open up and convey what his real feelings were.0