After a few months he started trying to make a connection again and when I moved back he was very full on again.
Can any guy explain this? why did he cool off so much? we were going great and it was clear there would be something great between us together as a couple.
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It's really hard to say. Perhaps he felt that the distance you were moving away was too great to realistically pursue you. Maybe perhaps he thought that you going away was in some way or manner influenced by his thoughts you had feelings for another man in that area. In these aspects, I can't say that he took it personally.
If he decided to stop talking to you because he resented the fact that you were moving, then perhaps then yes he did take it personal. There's no one on here that can answer that question for him but him. If he's reaching out now that you're back, then perhaps if time and situation permits, then you should ask him how he feels about you as a person, how he felt when you moved and get him to open up and convey what his real feelings were.