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The best you can do is approach him..He's maybe a shy guy who's not used to court a girl. make the first move.0
The best you can do is approach him..He's maybe a shy guy who's not used to court a girl. make the first move.
If he is " "scared", it means that he is not interested that much.
What is he "scared" of, are you a men-eating tiger?
He likes you just enough, and that is all.
So, he shows you some lukewarm feelings, and wait for you to do the first move.
If you do, fine, he'll date you till someone who he likes better turns up, and he then dumps you.
And he will say: "But it was YOU who wanted it and YOU who made the first move".
And if you don't, he'll go look for someone else straight away.
Why do you want to get involved with a guy who barely likes you?
Life is too short to waste it on such.
Don't make the first move, just be normal friendly, then wait and see.
And you will see how when someone whom he likes better comes along, he won't be "scared". He will be all over her, and will make all the moves. Then you will understand the difference between being a "just OK for now girl" and "this girl is fantastic for me".
I get very frustrated. But then I think maybe I'm wrong and he doesn't like me and if he really liked me he would still approach me, no matter how scared he is.
I'll try to encourage him to open up about it but after a while I'll just move on.
It is extremely frustrating because usually if I'm even thinking about whether or not a guy likes me, I most likely feel the same way towards him but I need to know for sure he likes me
It depends on whether I like him or not...
If I'm not interested, I really don't care whether he "makes a move" or not :P
If I like him and I'm fairly sure that he feels the same way, I'll just go for it myself.
To be honest, I can get that a guy would be shy or nervous but eventually after repeated exposure to me he still hasn't manned up and made a move I just don't care. I'm almost 25, that's too old for a grown man to be scared to talk to the opposite sex. There are other guys he'll just be overlooked
They probably find it frustrating even though they could just as easily ask them out
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