We met about 3yrs ago, dated for a few months, then he asked me to be his girlfriend. It only lasted a month, but we never stopped talking. We always kept a good relationship and occasional flirting. I got back with my husband and we had a baby, and throughout this entire time me and my ex have kept in touch. My baby is now 9months and things didn't work out with my husband, so we recently separated (in civil terms). My ex boyfriend knows that I am not with my husband anymore. We hung out after 2 long years. We hung out at the park and talked about everything for 3hours, and nothing happened (no kissing or hugging or anything flirty). So now I'm wondering how he feels about me? He told me about 3months ago that his feelings towards me had not changed. But then again his not showing any signs that he likes me or wants to be close to me. We do text almost everyday and occasionally flirt. Sometimes he even tries to joke and flirt dirty with me. Obviously I still have strong feelings for him, but I don't show too much affection to him. However, I do believe he knows I still like him. Please help me out, I wonder what's going through his mind when he thinks about me or when he talks to me. Does he like me? Do you think he would ever want to give us another shot?
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It might be difficult but maybe just ask him straight out in a friendly way about how you two stand, does he still like/want you, is there anything that he is concerned about eg the ex husband. Tell him how you feel. Just lay the cards on the table and get all the stuff out in the open, then the 2 of you can decide what if anything is going to happen, if nothing does well at least you know and can start dealing with it.0
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