My boyfriend of 2 years ( we live together) doesn't treat me the same anymore. He use to say the nicest things and communicate. Now I feel like he is taking me for granted, I don't like it and I am not sure I want to stay with him. I want the " old" guy he used to be back. Maybe I'm being selfish but I need what I need and I give him what he needs. Any tips or opinions? Thanks for listening.
Without begging, how do you get your boyfriend to treat you like he used to?
What Guys Said 2
I think the relationship gets comfortable you know? I mean I doubt he takes you for granted, he's just probably is in a rut. You know you could spice things up? Lets say he comes home for work, and you dress all nice or fix dinner...you know make it romantic. THEN it's his turn to kinda turn on the heat. Make it a game THAT you start...nothing says that you can't spice up the relationship;;;KEEP IT FUN!0
You'll never be happy at this rate, because no one and I mean no one, stays the same as when you first met them. And it is foolish to expect them to stay them same.
I think you're addicted to the honey moon phase of relationships, which means you'll never be ready for the hard slog, gritty, rough times of a relationship where people have to wade in sh*t up to their elbows to make things work.
You just want the flowers and unicorns and chocolates phase, over and over again. And the only way to get that, is to keep dating new guys and dumping them when they change.0
What Girls Said 1
Guys are competitive and get motivated if they see another guy as a threat. He's taking you for granted? Well if he notices another guy pursuing you and giving you attention that'll put fire under his ass to start pleasing his woman before another guy steals you away. This has to be a guy who's either hotter/richer/more successful/popular than him for it to really work.0
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