My roomie has a decent job that pays good money and he doesn't have bills, so he can save, but he's still broke, and he's been on the fence along time about moving in with her and what not. he's kind of a pushover with her, so it seems to me that this is what's best for her atm as an individual and she kinda expects him to move in. I've talked to him a little about it but he won't really go into details too much. I've told him that she needs to do what's best for herself and get a job down there, get situated, make money, find a place and then he could move down there. There's no point in dropping a good job with no financial backing and following her around cause that's what she wants and because "they're" a couple.
The thing that gets me is that she'll talk about it every other day when she's over, and they'll talk about moving in. But then they go into a whole scenario like if we break up, we'll split the bills and be adults about it and blah blah blah. Realistically that's true, but you just don't hear a couple that's been dating and in love talk about stuff like that publicly, its weird. they make all these plans about life and kids and marriage, then they turn around and say if we do this, break up, and w/e.
How would you approach my best guy friend about this situation? Any advice is greatly appreciated.