We have a lot of mutual friends and not seeing each other is almost impossible, and the first time we did thigns were great until he began flirting with this girl in front of me. he noticed I was upset and ask what was wrong, I asked if he could not in front of me, he said he would never do that. I ended up walking in on him hooking up with this girl, I was of course very upset and he knew I would be, and after I saw them he left and took her to his house. I was devestated that he could hurt me. (Yes I know we aren't together, and he is free to do what and who he wants but there is no need to do it in front of me.) He has continued to talk to ex girlfriends that he used to say were crazy, he hated, etc and he would never speak to again when we were together. He has not attempted to talk to me since the night I saw him and the girl together, at my best friends house.
I have decided that it is time to remove him from my life, and have taken all steps to do this. My only question is why did he/ does he do those things that he knows will hurt me so much? Is he trying to make me jealous, get revenge, or did he really never love me? THis is the one question I can't stop thinking about. I can't understand how you could be so hurtful to someone who you tell that you love, and the next day turn around and do something that you know will crush them? Any one that has an inclination on why he would do this would be greatly appreciated.