I would never hurt my ex's and the guys that I have seen this happen to would never hurt their ex's either. I think that these girls know that so I'm assuming it isn't like a physical fear of being around them.
What thought process goes in to the "I can't be around him" attitude?
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Most of the time they're afraid the feelings will come back or sometimes if the girl ended it she doesn't want to give him any false hope