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How long were you broken up for?
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Yes. It was sort of a mutual break up, but it's because he wasn't treating me right so I was forced to walk away. We had been dating for about 1.5 years having broken up once before. We were broken up for 4-5 months.
I did use no contact because I was so over the drama and the constant flip-flopping from him. I didn't use it as a means to get him back, I used it as a way to get over him. It took him about 2 weeks the first time, and then every week or 2 after that he would try again. I didn't answer him for 3-4 months. Finally I ran into him in public, kept it cordial and went our separate ways. I answered him for the first time after that meeting and took it super slow, the whole time reminding him I could never date him again. He eventually weasled his way back into my life and has been fantastic. A different person. We've been dating for 7 months now with no problems.
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