how do you move on from thinking that a guy was so great, only to find out that it was a lie? I thought that he was this great guy, and he was for three years.now he's an a**hole and I can't help feeling like I just want him to be the same as before.how can I get over him?i have trouble talking to guys, and he was easy to talk to and made me comfortable, like no one id ever met. I had a lot of firsts with him and I can't get over him.he lives down the block from me so its hard to see him, but I hate not seeing him. how can I get over him?
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I know how this goes because I just got over a dude exactly like this. When we first broke up, I stayed in bed for a good 3 weeks and had panic attacks. It was probably the worst 3 weeks of my life. We were together for 2 years and he was my best friend throughout those 2 years. I barely talked to anyone else because we were always together. We broke up 3 months ago and a few weeks ago I finally started to realize that he's not worth the emotional stress.
I deleted his phone number and I blocked him on all social networking sites. Not because he was bothering me, but so I couldn't look him up and re-add him again or text him to tell him "I miss you". I started talking to old friends that I hadn't really talked to when I was with him due to him taking up all of my time. Other dudes started talking to me because I was single and I realized that I could do better, and could find someone that wouldn't drop me so easily. Him and I haven't spoken since we broke up and I can honestly say I'm over him.
It's hard at first, but it gets easier. Literally delete him from your life and distract yourself with other people's company. It works.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE