She's had a boyfriend for 3 years. They were high school sweethearts and he was her first and only boyfriend.
We became friends a few months ago and we instantly clicked. She admitted that she had a huge crush on me ever since she met me. She said herself that she loves me and I'm absolutely perfect for her.
She broke up with her boyfriend finally two weeks ago because he didn't want to finish college and she wanted him to. She went on a date with another guy two days later and even kissed him twice. She told me that she wanted me to take her to prom and we could try being a couple.
Then today she tells me she had a dream where I proposed to her and she said no. That obviously hurt my feelings. Then later she told me she really missed her boyfriend and I said it's natural since they just broke up, but then she tells me they're just on break as she plans on getting back together with him, even before prom.
I feel totally shafted because I'm, like, her soul mate yet she's going back to this terrible guy. She obviously doesn't love him and is just used to having him around after three years, so how do I convince her to not go back to him and look for other people (like me maybe) instead? Please, this is killing me, because I thought that I was special to her and now I just feel used. How do I stop her from making the worst decision of her life?
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She has to decide who her soul mate is not you. If she wants to get back with this guy let her and then go get another girl. Because if she were really, truly interested in you then she would have either dated you or became your girlfriend. Also people can and will lie, I remember my first many people told me they loved me or wanted to marry me but they did not.
This girl sounds really indecisive , and to just break up with her boyfriend because he may not want to go to college, she sounds flaky to me. She also told you she loved you then dated another guy, then wanted to get back with her BF. I think you deserve someone better than that. Hell what's to say if you did end up dating her she won't end up changing her mind about that because you forgot to brush your teeth one day.
If you want to stop having a controlling opinion distance yourself from her. Stop getting to involved with her issues, chat with other single girls you may like to date. Think about the fact that your single and your free to date or hang out with who you chose. Or just think about how she lied to you, should you really be that considered with someone that lead a friend on then hurt them?1