:( I really don't know what to do. I'm not sure if its time to break it off or to keep being with him. I've been thinking bout this for almost 3 weeks.
Some of the reasons I think its best is because we barley see each other (he works a lot & go to different school), our main form of comm is texting, seems like I'm making the most effort & I'm getting tired. I still like him a lot but recently I think the spark between us is fading. :/ I feel like he's losing interest and that just hurts me more.
Hes my very first boyfriend, we Haven't kissed, I'm 17 & he's 18. Its going to be 3 months tomorrow. What should I do?
- Yes, you should break up with himVote A
- No, you should work it out with him & not break up :)Vote B
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If you want to make it work you need to feel confident that he wants the same thing, and you both need to put in the effort to see each other when you can, if you live in the same town can you meet up at weekends or after school? Texting and phone calls are great ways to keep in contact. but if you feel like you're the one doing all the work and you're not as happy as you should be then you need to do what's right for you. It might hurt now, but in the long run you'll be happier, and you might find someone who's a little closer and makes sure he sees you :)
The advice I've been given by my guy friends in the past is that if a guy is interested he will put in the effort to see you. I started dating a guy last year, he was at my uni and we had great chemistry so we tried dating. in the end I had to end it with him because although we got on well and I really liked him, he just had no time in his life for me, his uni work, job, and friends came first meaning we ended up seeing each other less and less to the point that it felt like we were doing long distance when he only lived 45 minutes bus journey away (which in the city is nothing). it was only 2 months, but there were times when I felt really unhappy and I worried that he wasn't interested etc.
My current boyfriend lives 2 hours away by train in a different town, has just as busy a social life, and we see each other as regularly as we can. we both put in the effort, we text each other everyday and can't wait to see each other. I'm so happy with him, and we may never have got together had I not ended things with the other guy.
Like I said, you need to do what's right for you, good luck with whatever you decide to do