My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot recently. we've been together for 2 years. he broke up with me last week (i'll admit it was mostly my fault) he took me back the same night after talking about the problem. tonight I feel like I had no fault yet he walked out on me. I know he is upset and out partying, but it hurts me that he cared about having fun with his friends than fixing the problem with me first. I really love him but I'm always sacrificing myself to be with him and to fix our problems. I'm tired of being there for him and upset that he can't be there for me when I need him. help please! what should I do?
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Many girls somehow believe that if they put up with a guy's bad behavior long enough, that he will eventually see how much she loves him, and will love and respect her equally in return. Unfortunately, this is a totally misguided notion.
Most guys want a fun, self-confident girl, who respects herself, and who doesn't need him to have a good time. Once a guy knows you can't live without him, and will put up with any selfish or bad behavior he dishes out, your chances of keeping him challenged and interested in you goes right out the window.
Not only should you respect other people, but you should demand the same degree of respect for yourself. You should never put up with any kind disrespect from anyone, especially a person you are in a relationship with. You will have a much better chance of keeping a guy interested in you if you stand up yourself, than if you allow him to walk all over you.
Just remember that there are 4 billion guys on the planet. If the guy you are with starts displaying negative, or disrespective behavior towards you, be willing to walk away. If you do, it's very possible he will chase after you with new found respect. A respect he will never have for you if you can't respect yourself enough to leave.
hope this helped :)
good luck bud..!1