Been with my boyfriend for 2 years but he won't commit to marrying me. I think it's mostly because of his ex he never really got over. To him, she is "the best thing out there" and I'm 'second best'
Do guys like this change their minds?
They only dated for 4 months so he never got to see her bad side (which everyone has) so when she left him, she forever remained in a pedestal.
- No, he is still not over the fantasy of his ex so he won't marry meVote A
- Yes, he could change his mind soon enoughVote B
- See answerVote C
Most Helpful Girl
He sounds pretty immature. I mean I can understand a guy wanting more time, but to be in love with his ex still, after only dating her for 4 months. I find that really silly.
In my opinion, 2 years is enough time for a guy to know whether you two are ready to get married. Especially if you two are in your mid-twenties or older.
I dated a guy for over 2 years, only to find out that he didn't have that same plan for me. I wouldn't waste your time. Have the talk, if he says he's not wanting to marry you, leave. Find a guy who does.
You deserve someone who loves you back!0