Do guys like this change their minds?
They only dated for 4 months so he never got to see her bad side (which everyone has) so when she left him, she forever remained in a pedestal.
- No, he is still not over the fantasy of his ex so he won't marry me
- Yes, he could change his mind soon enough
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He sounds pretty immature. I mean I can understand a guy wanting more time, but to be in love with his ex still, after only dating her for 4 months. I find that really silly.
In my opinion, 2 years is enough time for a guy to know whether you two are ready to get married. Especially if you two are in your mid-twenties or older.
I dated a guy for over 2 years, only to find out that he didn't have that same plan for me. I wouldn't waste your time. Have the talk, if he says he's not wanting to marry you, leave. Find a guy who does.
You deserve someone who loves you back!