I want to get him back!

I broke up with my ex ex (Brandon) for my ex (Josh) because Josh was an amazing guy. He was everything I have ever wanted in a guy now that he's gone I want him back. I cheated on Brandon with Josh because Brandon stood me up, so I broke up with Brandon the next day. I started dating Josh about a week later. Josh kept telling me he was really really starting to like me and that he wasn't going anywhere. Then two weeks into our relationship, Josh asked who all I had been with and I told him honestly. He said he was disappointed in me. I feel so bad that he was disappointed and he broke up with me like three days later. He said it was nothing that I did he just wasn't good at relationships, but when I asked if it was because of one of the guys I have been with he said "kind of, but not all the way. I am just not good with relationships." I asked him if we could talk Monday (two weeks later) and asked if there was anything I could do to change his mind and be a better girlfriend like he deserves and he said he just doesn't want a relationship right now. Then I heard him talking to one of his friends. His friend said "dude, just date her! You keep looking at her" and Josh said he just doesn't want a relationship. His friend said well she did that and they said some other stuff that I didn't really catch. But he is an amazing guy and I just want to show him my past is the past and I want him back. How do I change his mind?

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  • I see. If you date an ex, make sure you have addressed what went wrong the first time, otherwise you risk breaking up again, like this time.

    He isn't disappointed with you. He shouldn't have handled it that way. Apparently he isn't comfortable with dating a girl that has been with other guys before. That would definitely make him uncomfortable if he isn't good at relationships. But he shouldn't have broken up with you just because he wasn't good at it.

    Talk it out. He just isn't that confident in being able to handle you having been with other guys. Don't break up so easily in any relationships. Talk things out before it gets to that. It seems like he likes you, but perhaps he thinks that you have done some things with other guys. It might be based on rumors or truths, and you won't know unless you ask him exactly what it is that he is not comfortable with.

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  • How is he an amazing guy when he dropped you because you were honest about him with guys you had been with before? He's an idiot for he seemingly wants a girl that will lie to him.

    Here's some more advice - grow up before you start taking relationships this seriously. You're still a kid.

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  • Sorry to say but you deserve it and it's your fault...cheaters never win

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  • Whatever you do since it is after the break up, don't let your emotions get the best of you. A lot of times from being heart broken, your mind go's completely crazy and you don't think straight and make stupid decisions causing to push your ex further away. That is why most people say to do the 30 day no contact

    But just relax and try to live your life without him for now so you can prove to yourself that you are OK being your own person. this will help you grow as a person and keep your sanity.

    Dont post anything negative emotional or sappy on Facebook. Allow yourself to be completely positive but yet keep the balance of being not positive and too positive. Too positive can cause suspicion. Just be yourself. Find the person he was attracted to in the beginning. The girl that was herself. Be yourself and nothing can go wrong!

    if you are content with being happy being single and being happy with yourself then either way with or without him there can be nothing that can go wrong!

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  • I was going to answer but you've already chosen best answer.

    God you're hot

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What Girls Said 2

  • first of all it is none of his business who you "get with" if you are not with him..u were honest with him and he uses it as an excuse ..he is not so amazing take off the rose colored glasses off,take all the focus off of him and stop trying to make him realize you are good enough..u don't have to prove anything,he is not GOD.You are better than that,find someone else

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  • you admitted you cheated on Brandon, so you basically replaced him? not good Karma

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