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Get your own place. No, really- and I'm not being mean. Unless you moved in with him on purpose after a deliberate talk about cohabitating, he probably feels like you oozed your way into his domain without his permission. I'm not saying he literally believes you tricked him or whatever, but I can tell you that it might FEEL that way to him. It's how I felt when it happened to me. I felt resentful and angry because my area, my space- wasn't mine anymore. And it made me feel worse that I had to feel like that about a person I cared about. I loved that guy, but I wasn't ready for that level of commitment. Maybe he isn't either but doesn't feel like he can be candid with you. Maybe he wants you out of his house but not out of his life.