my boyfriend (now ex) of 2 years broke up with me nearly 6 week ago. he told me he still had feelings for me & admitted it would be hard but said it was for the best. 2 week after breaking up with me he got real drunk & kissed a girl at a party. he now goes clubbing every weekend and he has blocked me completely out of his life! (Facebook calling twitter myspace) at first I was begging for him back but I am now in 2 week of no contact. I no he cared about me & we were so close why is he acting not bothered whilst its killing me?! I'm totally heartbroken! please help:(
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He's probably not over you. The reason he's going out clubbing and doing all those things is to keep him self occupied so he doesn't feel alone. No one "wins" the game of breaking up, everyone hurts no matter what they show. Trust me that's exactly what I do when I go through a break up, I go out. I've slept with 2 girls since but I miss the hell out of my Ex, I'd do anything to get her back.
My ex broke up with me a month ago said the same thing she thought it was for the best and still wanted to be friends. I tried to get her back, then she blocked me on FB etc. I thought she was doing fine and was over me. But I saw her at work a couple weeks later and she looked terrible, pale face, super broken out, dark circles around her eyes and just super depressed.
He does care about you though :), he's just looking out for himself and trying to heal right now. You should be doing the same.0