Time went by and I lasted with my ex about 2 years and she lasted with her ex for about 2 as well. A year from those 2 things, we started talking again, and the spark lit up again, and now were dating. This morning though, I get a text saying that she's worried and in fear over the past 8 months (because today was our month anniversary) that I will leave her and she's in fear. She also mentioned that her friend said if we were dating for a year and I didn’t marry her that she should leave me, and I'm guessing that it crossed her mind because she's scared that our relationship will get boring. I have had this happen with my ex and I know that just a little doubt, it doesn’t worry me, but what is worrying is that she's started listening to her friends more and she's in fear. I really don’t want to loose her, but she says she's scared I will do the same to her again (again, we weren’t dating, just talking over myspace, and just seeing each other around church). This time around, I realized my mistake and have tried 100% to this relationship, and I thought she was over it at least some, since she never actually showed it or said it before. I just want to know what I should do. I actually think that even before me she had a little issue with her dad since he was a bus driver, actually spending time away and coming back on some days, and noticed she's got trust issues not just with me, but others.