i took a gap year and work hard, my mom takes up things in my name so I have to pay for it, cause she can't afford all the sh*t, like gets a car on my name but doesn't pay for it so I am stuck dealing with it, so all my money goes to paying bills .. I'm planning to go to college this spring so I have to pay all my debts and on top of all this she wants me to do all her paper work and her bills, do I look like a assistant f*** nooo
today she calls me yelling and saying oh you don't care you don't do sh*t, you don't pay rent or food money, maybe you should move out and live alone so you can see how hard it is...
Well I doooo want to move out, I applied for student dorm room and I so wanna move,
what should I do?
basically my brother and I are a year apart, and he is in med school, I took a gap year, and ever since we were kids she has been so mean to me, yes hitting me a lot as a child, and honestly never him, I remember he would lie and blame things at me and she would hit me really hard, once made me sleep on the bathroom floor, and took me to my bed later , she was a young mother and now she says she didn't know better, and my dad wasn't in the picture, growing up I was afraid of her, until I managed to stand up for myself, and she doesn't hit me now , I'm 21 but there are times she might..
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You have to stop her from buying things in your name. She can ruin you if that keeps up. Then just move out as soon as you can. If you don't get a dorm room, then find a roommate and stay with them.
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