I broke up like almost 6 months ago and I finally gave up trying to get him back only about a month and a half ago. I gave him all his stuff back I blocked him from my life and I was feeling good I thought I was doing fine. And then my ex would call me randomly he attempted to contact me 3 times and I responded only once. The last time he contacted me was 11 days ago. And after day 6 I have been obsessing wondering why he didn't call back. Its like I was ignoring hoping he will realize he has lost me and will now try and get back. I thought that's how he would feel but I guess I was wrong. I know I am being ridiculous and really stupid. I myself never knew I had this side to myself.
Whats worse is now I feel like I am going back. All the progress I made I am erasing it by thinking bout him all the time. I don't wake up in mornings. I continue to sleep because in my dreams I see all I want to , so I avoid waking up , I don't like the reality. And then when I have no choice but wake up I am in a terrible mood. I hate this. I am moody all day. I keep thinking bout him. And I hate that he is not at all affected. Please help . Is this normal?
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Typically during a break up it's not easy for either person despite what they may show or what you may think they feel like. Everyone loses and hurts in a break up. My ex broke up with me a month ago. I tried to get her back but she wouldn't budge. I was depressed/ super sad she was gone and I kept thinking she was fine and almost happy to be done with me. But I saw her at work 2 weeks after and she looked SUPER depressed, all broken out, dark circles around her eyes and super pale. Him calling you 3 times means he was probably upset/ felt lonely which means he's not over you completely. But I wouldn't allow him back in your life.