I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 yrs. He managed to cheat on me for almost 9 months when I was working and living with him. I got over it (kinda). But still don't completly trust him. it has been a year since he cheated. we rented an inlaw apartment in the landlords house which she had a daughter who was 17 years old ( mind you my boyfriend is 25) she was very slutty looking and very unnatractive so I didn't think I needed to worry. now we moved in to a new apartment about a mile and a half from the last place and I go through his phone and find a secret Facebook that's not even under his name... weird.. so then I go to messages and find out he has messaged the ex-landlords daughter.. asking her to hangout and smoke.. I look at the time and the date and realize I was not home I was working.. the next day he takes the laptop to work and changes his cell phone number and deleted the account.. should I assume he is still cheating?
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Why on earth would you be with a guy who cheated on you for 9 months? You need to drop him.2