Should I worry about his ex?
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Wait- so was he telling her he loved her when you were both dating at one point before you were pregnant? :O Gosh! :L Well that was bad D: But now it sounds like he's chosen you... or at least mostly. If he's not reciprocating her romantic views, then he has chosen you :) But I would DEFINITELY have talked to him a LONG TIME AGO about this D: Talk to him the next chance you get some alone time with him, because that sounds like it really needs sorting out D: Especially if you have a baby coming, he cannot be all hesitant or less loving towards you or even possibly leave you in such circumstances D:
Try to approach the topic slightly casually- not with anger as that will lead to an argument, but rational, express you are sad and concerned, but make sure the atmosphere stays calm. You NEED to discuss this with him :O I really praise your patience! Wow! I wouldn't have managed to stay quiet and act OK with all that going on! :O But you definitely need to communicate with him soon D: Good luck!
If he really wanted to be with her, he would at least visit her once in a while or let her come over and tell you some lame ass excuse. But he doesn't. He's with you now, you have kids and plan on having more and talk about your future. Now a guy who isn't in it for the long run wouldn't do that (according to me, if they would they are a*holes).
But are you "allowed" to know something? I mean, did he ever tell you about her or are you supposed to not know about her?
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