I'm not sure how to change things. How do I get out of this rut?

I have lived in this city for almost 2 years. I hate my job but stay because I can't find something that will pay at least the same. My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago and I've gone out with a few different guys but can't find anyone I could see myself with. I know a few people here but I feel like they are only willing to hang out with me if they have nothing better to do. I have a sister here but her husband doesn't seem to like it if I come visit so I see them maybe 1-2 times a month. I'm tired of being alone and feel stuck and not sure what to do or where to begin. I want more out of life but don't know how to get out of this rut.


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  • You should just keep on pursuing guys.

    Nothing will change until you find a guy for yourself.

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What Guys Said 1

  • try knowing more people, go out, try new places, work on your social skills if you have a problem with them

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What Girls Said 2

  • Have your tried looking for jobs in other cities? Some have better employment options and it's not like you would be losing much in the city you are in now.

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    • I was thinking of that. I'm stuck in a lease until November so I wouldn't be able to easily move until then.

    • If it's still on your mind in November then it can't hurt to at least look.

  • Try to look for jobs in other States or come to Asia for a change!

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