My husband and I have been together for 23 years
Both virgins to each other, married 5 years ago we have
2 beautiful kids together and he recently cheated
On me 4 times with a woman old enough to be his mother
My heart is crushed trust is gone. He was playing her
Games via sexting at work, but after I found out he
Became very cruel to me saying he wants to sleep
With other woman, he has since said sorry but can't see
The damage he has caused! I love him and have stayed with him
But sometimes he says the most hurtful things and than
Says sorry, I have not seen him try to fix it, he does
Not understand that comunication is a must to fix our marriage
But instead never wants to hear or fight for what he says
He wants Back which is his family.
He can't understand the trust, honesty and respect he
Has taken from me.
He seems to say one thing and act out in a hurtful way
23 years is a long time not to fight for our family but
I feel I'm the one that's fighting and him just sitting there
Doing nothing to help.
The woman that bedded my husband keeps ringing and
Telling me what they did together which hurts me, my husband
Says his sorry but does not act it,
Need advice because I'm so confused as to stay
And fight or leave.
A councilor dumped him and referred him to a doctor
Who referred him to a psychologist because of past issues
Never dealt with and say these could be factors to why he
Is acting out now, but this hurts and it kills my heart knowing he
Did this and can't see that his actions still hurt.
What would everyone else do please! I need advice.
Thanks in advance. Xx
wants me to get over it, can't understand that it will take time to move forward and does not understand when I get sad or angry at him over what he took from me? he took my trust that I gave him and blinded me by cheating.
i trusted him with out a doubt in the world,
i would also like to say that there were about 6 others at work that she did this to as well and I'm not sure how, she is old, really ugly and huge.
plays with their heads and then gets them to have sex with them.
she has changed my husband in to a man that I do not know.
he has gone from a family man to a man that wants things..
are things that you can buy more important than a family?
im so confused. so hurt and feel so dirty.
Most Helpful Guy
Those were so disrespectful, traitorous, unfaithful, infidel, rude and unforgivable acts that he had done to you.
Consider a divorce.1