I am in a relationship so it is difficult for me to understand the mindset.
I wake up this morning and this one female plastered my FB news feed with those stupid quote images talking about how BS it is that there is a guy out there who treats a girl right or a list of qualities in a man that would make the ideal boyfriend.
What I don't understand is the mindset to keep going after guys that treat females like garbage.
One guy she dated was a drug dealer and he treated her like garbage for a year.
One guy was unemployed at 28, essentially homeless, and wouldn't take a job doing nothing because it would still be a job.
One guy she admitted was just using her for sex to get over his ex and they (had NOTHING in common) and she still complains he treats her poorly.
I just don't get the mindset and I see it mostly with people on the lower ends of the socioeconomic ladder.
Is it a self-esteme issue? That these girls don't believe they deserve a quality guy? Family upbringing and don't know better? Just not well adjusted?
I notice that trends within this group include tattoos, smoking (cigs or weed), drinking, obsession with athletes or celebrities, ect.
Can anyone provide insight into this mindset?
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I didn't read the question, but the title is 100% right.0