P.S When I try to stop the conversation,trying to make them short and I reply with "We may talk an other time,take care" Her replies are like,"okey...take care" or a bit more offensive like she is mad,ur thoughts?
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I really don't see a correlation between talking and "making the first move". After all, it's just talking. If I saw it that way then random strangers would be making a move on me everyday, even girls and in turn, I would be making moves on them. To me, talking is 'innocent', so I treat it as such, (with limits). I don't wait for the right opportunity to talk to someone, I don't wait for him to talk to me first, if I want to talk to him then I do. There's really nothing to play into. I keep it fun, simple and fresh. I've had some awkward moments though, I'll admit, when talking to certain people, and a lot of the time our conversation will be cut short, because I really do have to go and I'll be like OK, well, I'll c'ya! And then they're like...oookkkk. But I really don't care, because for some reason I just hate the whole "Hi how are you, what have you been up to?" thing. It's a waste of time and I just like to get to the point in being like, "hey guess what?!" or..."ok well bye" but some people like it when you get all into the hello and goodbye greetings. So, maybe she's like that with you because you're short with her. Why wouldn't she be short back, since you don't have a lot of time?