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It depends on a lot of situations. You say it was a friend's with benefits situation. That could mean that the relationship did not continue to closure. There is something still there obviously. When a man loves and cares for a woman, he will not be speaking to any ex at all, unless maybe an ex that they share children with. Most of the time if a guy is still talking to an ex at all, this means feelings of some sort are still there. Try talking to him and tell him how you feel. If you are OK with it, he will be. If he truly cares about you, then he will stop. If not, walk away.