Most Helpful Girl
If this guy used to contact another girl irrespective whether he was drunk or sober. He was not loyal and not completely into you. And it was good you guys did not end up together. He did not deserve your love at all. If a person cannot be honest in a relationship he/she is not worth it. I know it hurts bad and since you loved this guy and even more as he is now seeing a person who might be one of the reasons to the break-up, it's human so don't be hard on yourself. Since you have already moved on - try harder to forget the past and this jerk. Just do things you feel happy about or makes you more confident as a person, as being stuck in the past usually lessens self-confidence. Just have fun and enjoy the present!