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Hard work makes fro a good/strong marriage, so you either do it before and risk less or do it after and risk more.
It's funny that people are about to invest EVERYTHING in another person and never do the deep research to find out what went wrong prior ... to see if this is something tolerable or you can fix easily. They are sold on the glossy paint exterior, never under the hood at the engine, they settle for prejudiced friends/family's opinions that put a halo on him and horns on his failures past and that's enough! Really?
So many failures = potential Pandora's box to deal with like a Jack-in-the-box surprises during any busy week with 6 kids to manage?
Marriage should not be about settling but something one never cares to do again.