I had known a girl for over 2 years. We were very good friends. Did a lot of things together. She had many times made sexual innuendos but I just took them as joking around. About 6 months ago she had mentioned to me she had started dating a guy. I don't know if she said it because it was true or if she was testing me to see how much I liked her. I over reacted and we got in an argument. She got very angry and stormed out of our health club.
Next time I saw her I tried to apologize but she said she didn't want to talk with me. I wrote a great letter apologizing also. Still no response. I had not seen her for a number of months until yesterday. When she saw me the look on her face appeared very solemn, almost sad. Don't laugh but it looked as if she was staring straight ahead almost paralyzed.
I am a guy, and don't know much, but it almost appeared as if there was sorrow in her eyes. Again I can't say for sure. Has this ever happened to anyone else? Could she have some regret for what happened and didn't have the courage to approach me?
I can tell you when we first met her girlfriend said that my friend had liked me a lot but always had a hard time relating to guys. Can someone please give me some advice? Can anyone decipher her actions?
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I think all this time she had feelings for you & was waiting for you to say something, but you never did so she found a guy that did. When she told you & you reacted the way you did, you really confused her & got her angry because now she's unclear of your feelings for her. She probably felt like it was either too late or like she just couldn't win. After seeing each other she realizes there's feelings still there & really wishes you would've said something. The reason she avoided you is because she can't be just friends with you if she's going to be happy.& Considering that's all you've left her with, she's trying to move on. <--- that's what I think happened.So now the best thing you could do is tell her what you feel & if all else fails, just forget about her. Hope I helped & good luck!0
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