Is my boyfriend going to leave me?

I have always felt that we have a great relationship but he seems to be puking away lately.. We've been together for a year and a half and living together most of that time. Last night while we were in bed I told him how much I love him and how wonderful he is and all he had to say back was that he knows and I say it too much. Then this morning when leaving for work we both said drive safe have a good day but no I love you. Also I cried while laying on his chest last night and he just ignored it. I feel like I'm the only one in this.. It's very depressing.

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  • It looks like you are spending too much time together. You need to make him miss you and feel the love again. He is getting bored of the routine. You need to spice things up. Surprise him by doing little things that he will like. Also you can plan a romantic date to make things alright. If your sex life is becoming plain, you need to do things that he will like(something which he didn't expect you to do). You have to win him back. Try to have a long talk with him and focus on him, on his feelings.

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    • This all sounded pretty good til the long talk part. He probably does not want to sit there and discuss his 'feelings', especially after telling her she tells him how she feels too much!

    • Yes I agree but after she is done with pleasing him, I think he will be OK with talking a bit. Even though not about his feelings but casual stuffs.

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What Guys Said 3

  • Sounds like your fella has limited emotions for you now, unfortunately, there's not much you can do about this but wait and see how he ends up, it may just be a phase or permanent, time will tell, but don't not speak to him about how you feel, you have a right to know if he is second guessing the relationship, why should you still make the effort if he has already given up,x

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  • maybe

    or maybe he's goign through a rough patch. why don't you just try to talk to him about how he's feeling. ask him if he's feeling alright and mention that you've noticed x,y,z recently and are just concerned there is something wrong. Try to do it in a supportive position rather than one of accusation. Hopefully if you two communicate well you can get him to open up

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  • That's really sad :(

    Yes, I think so.

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What Girls Said 2

  • I don't know whether or not he's planning on leaving. But at the very least, he doesn't seem to invested or interested in the relationship. It's not a good sign if you've been with someone over a year and you can't even tell them you love them. It sounds he's maybe just staying out of habit or because he likes being in the relationship for now even though he's not in love with you. Personally, I'd leave him and find someone who could give me the affection I need.

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  • Sounds like it may be a possibility. He's pulling away it seems. I would confront him about it to find out what's going on with him.

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