I feel like I'm a cheater, but at the same time, I'm not sure. Even though this happened last year, I still wonder about it.
To make a long story short. I met this guy on a dating site. We dated a little over 9 months. It was a long distance relationship. We lived in the same state, just 3 hours away. We never met because of our work schedules and because he wasn't trying. we mostly texted each other, but Skyped, and called each other every once in a while.
So anyways, I hooked up with this guy I was cool with in high school. I did because we had a mutual attraction. He was here, my ex wasn't. Also, I was kinda lonely and wanted someone to be there. I never told my ex, nor did he find out.
So 3 months later, he randomly broke with me. He said that he stopped caring about me for some time now, and said our relationship was "nothing but a game" and that he wanted something real.
I felt like I cheated when I slept with that guy. My ex worked night shifts, so I would stay up all night to talk to him, knowing I had school or work the next morning. I was there when he need support. I even free willingly sent him money once to help him out with a bill. Call me dumb, I don't care, but what has been done has been done. but I really thought what we had was real. When my ex said reduced our relationship to a game, it made me wonder if I really cheated or not.
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Personally I don't think you can't constitute something as dating when youve never met.
So no, you didn't cheat.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE