How long did it take you to move on

How long was your past relationship and how long did it take you to finally get over the person

was in a 3 month relationship, we spent so much time together. to be honest we were moving too fast.

It is almost 3 weeks and I cannot move on.

I keep calling and texting my ex, at first he answered asap but now he takes longer to respond. I am happy that within 2 days I fought the urge to not call him. Still fighting it today, I know he is seeing someone new and also his friends look at me awkward and some has stopped talking to me.

I miss him but I know I should just let it go, its the right thing to do why is it so hard.

I left my life and lived his now its hard to adjust. I still cry everyday why is this so hard I admit he is my 1st true love but why is it so hard.

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  • Friends make a huge difference. If you want to get over him sooner, I implore you to not shut them out. This guy and I have been in an on and off relationship for over eight months. This time, he ended it because he thought we weren't meant to be. We were friends before we dated and have tried to remain friends whenever we broke up. It was a week ago Friday, and I found out he is with someone else. Normally, it would destroy me, and it did when we first broke up and even more so when I found out he has a new girlfriend. But the reason I am not crying and texting him everyday is because I have been talking to my friends. They have been getting him off my mind, and it's a really good feeling. It also helps to think about the future instead of the past. Honestly think about it. Chances are, in a year, this pain will have faded or disappeared completely. You may even have a new boyfriend by that time. It gets easier, and you have your whole life for it to get easier. If you're still in high school, you have college to think about. If you're in college, you have your career to think about. Focus on things you can do today that can help you achieve your goals in the future. And if being productive doesn't help, focus on enjoying your life. Find the person you were and the things you enjoyed before you dated him, and find a way back to being that person and enjoying those things. Eventually, it will get to a point where this is just a memory, and you will have come out of this situation so much stronger than you could have ever imagined. It doesn't happen in a day, but give it time and I promise you will find it in you to move on.

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What Guys Said 3

  • I was in a 7 month unofficial relationship. Felt like a relationship, but it didn't really progress like I wanted it; I told her I loved her but she didn't want a relationship because it messed with her career goals or whatever that means. It took me about 5 months and a lot of social interaction to finally move on. I'm about 90% over her, but seeing her on Facebook or in real life brings back memories...

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  • 6 minutes.

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  • Even if it were more than 3 months for me, it would just take me 3 days at most to move on. There's no use clinging on the past.

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    • i wish it was that easy for me man I need some of your hardness

What Girls Said 2

  • If this is your first relationship, and you were he one dumped, then I think it could be a while.

    You'll need to find something new to distract you. Oh, and delete his number. DELETE IT NOW.

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  • I was in an intense relationship (emotionally not physically) with the last guy for a month. He ended it up because his friends and his mom didn't like me! HE was such a jerk and I still cry (after 4 months) everyt time I remember smt we went through together. I guess it goes away when you find a new love. Until then- you feel depressingly empty.

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