My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. WE are each others first boyfriend/girlfriend and first kiss too. We go to different high schools too. So we have not seen each other for the past two months, since my birthday. On my birthday, he claimed to have forgotten my gift. We never talk or do anything anymore. It'll be a week before he texts back. If we are texting about something he will just stop responding, never bothering to say bye anymore. He always claims to be busy. He said he was spending time at the hospital because of his grandma but when I asked how she was doing he was confused as to why she would not be doing fine. Lately, I've started crushing on a guy, but did not act or flirt and still felt guilty.
Should I break up with him? How do I do it nicely?
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I think it's time to let him go. He doesn't deserve you and clearly has no intentions of putting in effort to make things work. A relationship is work for TWO people, not just you. He's not giving you the time of day, yet a boyfriend is supposed to care about you. I always believe that breaking up in person is the right thing to do, however in your case, he seems to be treating you like your not at all important to him and he ignores your attempts to get together, so I say in your case, doing it through text isn't such a bad idea. He seems like a jerk. You deserve to be treated like you matter.
just tell him "Listen ________, I've been trying so hard to be a part of your life and I've made a continuous effort to make things work between us, but quite frankly it seems as if I'm the only one who cares to keep this relationship going. I think we should breakup and move on. Relationships are a two way street, and ours only seems to be going one day. I think it's time we end this before things go any further." or something along those lines maybe.0