Lately my girlfriend and I have been going through a rough patch. For the past month things haven't been great due to stress and both of us being tired. She said she wanted to take a break, but we talked about it and I mentioned that I wouldn't be able to concentrate on anything if I didn't know what was going to happen to our relationship. We talked for an hour, got a few laughs in, and pretty much went off topic. She started talking about summer plans between us, and I asked how she was now feeling about the relationship. She said she "forgot we were even going to take a break." We both laughed it off.
She knows I will be taking my MCAT soon, is there a chance she is planning to end things after I take the MCAT? And is only keeping the relationship going so I can focus, as a favor to me?
She still calls and texts to talk, but texting has gone down a lot, although she has major exams coming up too (Vet school, etc.).
Should I be worried, or am I being crazy?
Before all of this we had a small fight that progressed quite a bit, but we talked it out.
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These sorts of subtle changes are pretty telling. She may not have set herself a deadline to break up, but she has probably already decided to leave at a convenient time. After the tests?
Maybe--shje also doesn't want to be distracted by relationship trauma right now. so she's being civil until the right time comes.l0