The problem is he always makes a return about a month or two down the line and I always make the mistake of taking him back because enough time has passed for me to forgot the feelings of rejection and hurt that he always makes me experience.
Rather than risking the chance of him trying to come back, I texted him yesterday and asked him to delete my number. And he refused. I told him there was no chance for friendship down the line and he still refused. He told me that I should delete his number instead but that he simply would not delete mine. He wouldn't even tell me why.
So my question to you guys is why? I'm thinking about just changing my digits but why would he keep my number if he A) doesn't want to be with me and B) knows I don't want to be his friend.
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Please don't take offense,but YOU are the root of the problem.Why he refuses to delete your number isn't really the question here.The real question is,"Why do you choose to continue to communicate with someone you supposedly don't want to be bothered with?"
Just because he keeps your number and reaches out to you,it DOESN'T mean you have to pick up.We all know there are features on phones whereas you can BLOCK a number.Secondly,there's no real reason to answer someone contacting you basically to tell them that you no longer wants to speak to them.Its like telling a child not to touch something.Just because you tell them NOT to,they become even more intrigued with pushing the limits to actually touch the object.The same thing applies here.You telling him that you don't want to be bothered actually means..."Yes.I do want you to bother me." WHY?Because you continue to communicate so how is he able to take you seriously? Exactly...he's NOT.
Lastly,why won't he tell you why he is keeping your number?Its because he sees you as BOO-TAY.Familiar booty at that.You said it yourself...he doesn't want a relationship with you and he doesn't care for you...so WHY do YOU think he wants to keep communication with you?Its time to be honest with yourself.
In the end,I think you might enjoy the attention a bit that he's giving you...because if you didn't,you would ignore him EVERYTIME and you know what?He would take the hint. And...its easy to go back to someone who will always take you back no matter what you do,THAT'S why he is keeping your number.So,if you're sick of hearing from him,IGNORE him and leave it at that.So far you haven't truly done that and that's why he makes bimonthly appearances.So...there isn't really much to complain about...especially when YOU alone possess the solution.