Most Helpful Girl
This guy appeared to be trying to push you into sex and when you refused, he went off to another girl and you were hurt by it. He sounds like an a**hole to me and you could find someone a whole lot better. Yes you like him but eventually feelings can fade if you try hard enough. Your feelings fading for him would be the best thing to happen to you right now. Small crushes are easy to stop compared to breaking up with a long term partner so it's not hard to "move on" from him. I can tell you now, if you got with this guy, you would inevitably get hurt. Not only that but you'd have the strain of him being away from you for long periods of time which is already tough on the best of relationships. He's not worth going after. Fall in love with the idea of finding someone a whole lot better than him!