I know the "go-to" answer is going to be, it's over. But I'd like to see under what circumstances some of you girls would have gone back to your guy while you were taking a break.
Reason for the break: Wants to rethink the relationship and see if she wants to stay with me or not. She's stressed beyond belief right now as well.
Would you have wanted your guy to give you space? Contact you during the day, at night, to check up, anything else?
Or does "break" just mean "we're going to break up and there's nothing you can do"
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Hm. Well the 'reason for break' sounds typical, but honestly it's pretty vague (probably on purpose if that's all she told you).
What you should do/not do is ENTIRELY dependent on what her real reason for the break.
The bottom line is, her interest level is below 50%. It's hard to fix a relationship once it starts tearing. You still have a chance though, because you didn't actually break up yet.
A) Is she interested in someone else?
B) Is she bored with you?
C) Is she angry with you?
D) Has she concluded that your life goals are becoming increasingly different?
E) Did she maintain relationships with her own friends while dating you or did she feel isolated?
F) Did she recently move or change her lifestyle in some major way?
G) Did you offend her in some way?
If she's angry, offended, interested in someone else, or concerned about life goals: you should contact her and tell her you want to clear things up now (or else you want to break up in the case of her being interested in someone else).
If she's bored, felt isolated, or doesn't admire you any more: give her space, get your life together, and let her figure out what she wants.
Hope that helps! Good luck :)0