Another thing I'm concerned about is the fact that I don't have a car. I can't take myself to work, or school, and that task would rely on him and anybody else I could bum a ride off of. Which I don't want.
But he seems to think that moving out together will be a good thing. Especially so I can get out of the negative household I am in right now. I'm just very scared that things won't go well. He told me that if I keep doing the same things I've always done I'll never get anywhere. He said I should stop thinking so negatively and that I won't always know what's going to happen, but its worth a risk.
Everyone has always told me that family is forever and that I should be careful. I'm just not sure what I should do. It sounds like a good idea, but I'm lacking the courage it require to stand up to either my boyfriend, or my own family. My mind is in a thousand different places right now and I wish I had a better Idea of what I should do.
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It's still upon your decision. If you're really in a negative household, I think it's best if you move out with him.